YOU DON'T NEED TO BE THE WONDER WOMAN

Since you were little, society has imposed a very high bar on you about what it means to be a woman, to be the perfect mother, the perfect woman, the perfect professional, the perfect housewife, but if we are realistic there is no way to meet all of these parameters. If you don’t sacrifice your own happiness, because in the end, the day only has 24 hours and you would be left with hours left to accomplish everything and also make space for yourself.

They often call it sacrifice, but in reality it is love, it is choosing among all the options we have which one makes you feel fuller, the one that gives you more moments of happiness, life is about that, having more moments of happiness than of sadness and knowing how to take on the not-so-good moments with the best attitude, pain is not avoidable but suffering is.

Learn to set limits in your life, limits are healthy, they are the perfect measure to have a balanced and happy life, learn to enjoy every moment that comes and accept the people who are in it, be grateful for your loved ones, for the who are next to you, accompanying you, helping you and why not supporting you at the foot of the canyon.

You don’t need to do everything alone. Believing yourself to be Wonder Woman sometimes only brings a lot of tiredness and loneliness, you stop enjoying the essentials of life and you forget that the goal is not the most important thing, but the path. We also understand that on the route you will find invaluable people who will be able to help you carry all the weight. Sometimes just because you believe you are strong and invincible, you don’t ask for help, you sink alone and you don’t realize that around you there are many other people like you, willing to help you. You realize that the grass is not greener on the other side, the grass is greener where you water it, where you take care of it, where you give it love, only there it begins to flourish.

If we begin to eliminate the mutual pressure to do everything “perfect” and want to be Wonder Woman in all aspects of life, if instead we embrace our fears, our fragility and realize that together we are stronger, we can begin to change. our world and that of those around us.